The Attention Deficit Disorder Thread

I know you mean well, but it's not that simple. As I've told you in the past, I have a lot of personal demons. You have no idea what my family has been through, or is currently going through.

 

Nor do you have any clue about mine or madames or scribes or....etc.

You are still missing the point of what im saying. You have the ability to handle the situation as you see fit. You are not a child that is forced to deal with whatever shit is piled on them. If you are unhappy then change. Whatever that change needs to be, make it happen. One thing I know about this life and this world is that everyone has a sad song to sing. While you can sit back and listen to others songs and pass judgement on their validity, the bottom line is that it really is in the eye of the beholder. Just dont allow bullshit to become excuses.

 

Considering most people on this forum are dumb horny guys, I'd be more worried about them creeping on you.

That's part of it. It mostly has to do with the fact that the two sisters I grew up with are my step-dad's kids, whereas I'm pretty much just baggage from a previous marriage. We were close before my sister's were born, but once he had his own kids it was a different story. I've only see my sister on my biological father's side once in the past several years.

True on both counts.

 

I've never claimed to.

I got the point of what you were saying. But not everybody has the capability to enact that change.

 

Unless there is some physical handicap or mental handicap, I dont buy that. You control your destiny, your destiny doesnt control you. Theres a big difference between difficult and impossible. Im not going to bore you with tales from my childhood or the fucked up shit I have seen and been through but I can tell you with great confidence that if I can change, you can change. If I can persevere and thrive in spite of what I endured, so can you. Nothing personal against you dude, but I hate to see someone allow themselves to become stagnant.

 

Unfortunately, right now it's mainly about the $. And while I'm not going to place the blame solely on it, there is a mental aspect to it, which you are aware of.

I agree. It's like I told you before, I'm still trying to find that purpose in my life. Once I find what that is, things will become much more clear.

 

Yeah, but don't forget about the Haswell's of the world.

We all have our little quirks. That reminds of how when I was a little kid I though the TV worked both ways, and the people on the TV could see you.

What helped me through a lot of my own problems was helping other people with theirs. I've told a few people on here, but basically I used run my own little crisis hotline.

 

U so stpid.

 

I was like four years old.

 

We all have our weaknesses and our demons....

 

:-|

 

You must not be aware that we (US) are in a major drought. Rain is good.

 

That's right around when I was doing it. Back then internet chat rooms were a big thing. I would hang out in chat rooms, and I guess people just found me easy to open up to. I found it made things easier for people to deal with a peer & to have things come up through the course of conversation. A lot of people are hesitant to use resources such as crisis hotlines. It's still something I would love to do, but it's near impossible with the way social media is these days. Sorry it took so long to reply.

 

What chat rooms did you go to?